I just had the best coaching session with one of my clients! Her agenda for the session was about letting go of limiting beliefs, so that she could find and attract the love that she desired and deserved.
I love this subject because it brings 2 of my favourite coaching methods into play: letting go of self-limiting beliefs and the Law of Attraction!
In the past my client was in a relationship that encompassed power, control, fear, and insecurities. At times it even harboured on being abusive. Finally, after years of this experience she found the strength to pick herself up and leave this relationship.
As a result of this relationship (and perhaps previous experiences) my client held many untrue, negative self-limiting beliefs.
There’s this saying that you ‘get the love that you think you deserve’. To some this statement can be quite upsetting but to me it’s so empowering. If a person consciously and/or subconsciously thinks that they don’t deserve a love that is gentle, compassionate, nurturing and beautiful, they won’t find it- with anyone!
Limiting beliefs based on past experiences can hold anyone back from attracting exactly what they want. If you have a limiting statements like ‘I’m not good enough’, ‘I can’t have that’, ‘No one will ever love me’ then you will attract exactly that into your life.
On the flip side (empowering!!!), if a person knows, thinks, and feels that they deserve to be loved to the moon and back, they will find a love that takes them to the moon and back.
My client said to me ‘Arianne, I am ready to attract a new love in my life’. Just typing this statement and remembering the way in which she said this, is now bringing tears to my eyes.
There is nothing more inspiring to me than when a woman is ready to take control of her life, with the understanding of her value and worth!
She had done her work (and will continue to) surrounding her limiting beliefs. Now she knew that she deserved to be loved fully and completely for who she was- not for who she thought she was due to her previous relationship and/or self-limiting beliefs.
So, we started making a list of what she wanted in a partner, a relationship, and how she wanted to feel. This was when Law of Attraction stepped in- after she was done making the list and becoming clear on what she wanted she felt so amazing!
This wonderful feeling aligned her with the desired outcome of attracting this person into her life.
Her next step was to feel this way as much as she could, and this is done by reading the list over or making another one. At the same time she would have to see if any other limiting beliefs came up. If so she would work her way through them as we had in our past sessions.
Due to how the Law of Attraction works she is currently attracting that ‘special someone’, and I cannot wait to hear all about it when it happens!
Letting go of a self-limiting belief that doesn’t serve you opens up so much space to attract what you want in life.
What is it that you want? What do you need to let go of in order to attract it?
Calgary Canada Life Coach Arianne Moore-Armstrong, founder of Path of Tranquility Life Coaching for Women, helps clients worldwide.